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Twenty-One Questions: Lips and Poetry

March 31, 2026 by
Twenty-One Questions: Lips and Poetry
Lips and Language

I Saw You

You walked outside in the night air to light your cigarette 
Light skin good looking man standing tall 
Bastard 
Without a care or thought in the world you stood there smokin your life away 
I sat in my car and wondered 
Was this really you? 
Ppl been sayin you cut your hair 
Ppl been tellin me they see you all the time 
I've never cared 
I've wondered what it would be like to be in yur presence again 
Would I be ok? 
Would I cry? 
Would I be nervous? 
What is there to say to the man who betrayed me? 
That morning still fresh in my mind 
Jus like it was yesterday 
But I now question myself 
Did it even happen? 
Y didn't I tell anyone? 
The shame of it all was too much to bare 
There's somethin to say about someone who's been raped 4 times 
The world doesn't view situations like mine in a kind way 
Who would really believe me? 
I regret doing nothin about it 
Here yu stand free, smokin, chillin 
Walking amongst the very likes of me 
All because I did nothin about it 
N now everytime I see yu I feel trapped inside a world of disgrace, shame, guilt and 21 questions 
I honked my horn to see if it was really yu or if I was drivin myself crazy for no reason 
Yep 
Tabernack 
Je suis fâché contre vous 
Mais j'ai fait la décision de rester silencieux 
I'll n'y a rien je peux faire maintenant
There's nothing left to do, I made the decision to stay quiet 
So I left 
Went home 
And cried myself to sleep 
Damn thought I was over this


Reflection & Context

This piece was born out of the shock of unexpectedly seeing someone who once violated my trust and my body, living freely, untouched by consequence, while I carried the weight of what happened in silence. It captures the collision between memory and present reality — how trauma does not always announce itself, but can surface in a moment, a face, a familiar movement, a breath.

It speaks to the quiet torment of not telling, of wondering if the truth would ever be believed, of questioning one’s own memory because the world kept moving as if nothing had happened. The poem holds the ache of unresolved pain, the confusion of seeing someone walk unbothered while your nervous system remembers everything. It is the voice of a woman who chose silence for survival, and later had to grieve what that silence cost her.

Reflection Prompt

What memories still rise unexpectedly, asking to be acknowledged rather than buried?

What would it mean to offer yourself compassion for the choices you made to survive, even when those choices still carry pain?

Original Performance 


This piece was originally performed as part of the Lips & Poetry series, where spoken word meets lived experience. Watch the original recording below to hear the rhythm, breath, and emotion that first carried these words.

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