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To My Son's Father Part Four: Lips & Poetry

September 8, 2026 by
To My Son's Father Part Four: Lips & Poetry
Lips and Language

The Power of Forgiveness

Hey KayKay
We did it
We kept love alive
We let forgiveness speak
And God has restored
It's been nine years since you left
But your story is more alive now, than it ever was
I spoke to your father and we've been rebuilding
I've been sharing your memories with him so that he can get to know you
You were always a light in the lives of others and in your absence 
His healing now begins
Baby after 17 years, we finally stood in silence at your tree
Knowing that God truly does set people free
Your father says he's sorry and he wants to read your story
I'm so happy God filled our hearts with continuous love and that Our Father from above taught us the power of forgiveness
We forgive and God forgave
He forgave in order to save the lost and remind them of their worth
Although you died
You birthed a legacy
And your story will be carried forward
This I promise you
Dear son, 
I love you

Reflection & Context

This piece is written from a place of reunion that happens in the spirit before it ever happens in the flesh. It is a letter of remembrance, forgiveness, and restoration — not only between a mother and her child, but between two parents who once stood divided by grief, silence, and unfinished understanding.

It speaks to the long road of healing after loss: the years it takes for words to return, for stories to be shared, for apologies to finally surface, and for forgiveness to become more than a concept — to become a living practice. The poem honors how love does not end with death, how memory becomes legacy, and how God’s timing can bring hearts back to sacred ground when they are finally ready.

At its core, this piece is about reconciliation that transcends absence. It is about a child’s life continuing to teach, to soften, to bridge, and to heal. It declares that even in loss, love can be restored, relationships can be redeemed, and a story once marked by pain can become a testimony of grace.

Reflection Prompt

Where have you seen forgiveness take years to mature, but finally bring peace when it arrived?

How might remembering with love, rather than with only pain, become part of your healing?

Original Performance 


This piece was originally performed as part of the Lips & Poetry series, where spoken word meets lived experience. Watch the original recording below to hear the rhythm, breath, and emotion that first carried these words.

Experience the Poem in Voice