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The Making of Cola: Casualty of Love’s Apologies

February 22, 2026 by
The Making of Cola: Casualty of Love’s Apologies
Lips and Language

Excerpt

This episode traces the origin of my memoir—from an idea sparked in shared pain to a book that became a ministry. What began as a collaborative writing project slowly transformed into a personal record of survival, grief, faith, and healing. Through years of loss, creativity became the place where truth could live without rushing resolution. This is the story behind the story—and how writing carried me through what grief could not destroy.

Reflection

Some stories are written for release long before they are written for readers. This episode is an invitation to consider how storytelling can become a form of obedience, how grief can be processed rather than housed, and how faith often meets us in unfinished drafts. When we allow ourselves to tell the truth in pieces, healing has room to enter without pressure or performance.

Journal Prompts

  • What part of your story feels unfinished, and why?

  • Where has creativity helped you process something you couldn’t yet explain?

  • What would it look like to trust that your story has purpose beyond your pain?